Take the VIPER test. Apply it to social behavior, health behavior, marriage behavior, anything! You must get 5 out of 5 yes's for it to be the best for you. A combination of neutrals and yes's involves some compromise - you determine if it's worth it. Any no's mean that you do not want to participate in this behavior. Do not rationalize. Don't get bit by a VIPER! Remember that proper behavior may come at a price - licensed engineers are obligated to protect the safety of the community first and foremost. Always act honorably, with integrity, and help others every opportunity you get.